Wedding Planning Tips When You Are Feeling Indecisive
when my husband and i got married at the end of 2019, we mutually decided on a basic, civil ceremony and a relatively small wedding reception with around 60 guests. no program or gimmicks involved; just a delicious filipino buffet and some lovely live music. it was the best decision for us and something we look back on fondly, as it cut our decision-making needs significantly (we are both very indecisive!). i know this is not the case for all brides and grooms to be, however, and that the whole wedding planning process can get out of control rather quickly.
even if you have dreamed about getting married since your childhood, it does not mean that you know exactly what you want your wedding to be like, especially if your style and aesthetic have changed since your early years. however, instead of panicking about your indecision, there are several steps you can take to help with this, and here are just some of them.
PICK A WEDDING VENUE THAT SUITS YOUR NEEDS BEST
when you envision your big day, what sort of venue do you see as the backdrop? what jumps out from your collection of wedding pegs and pinterest boards? rather than simply opting for the first wedding venue that you come across, make sure that you look at multiple options before you book one. it is also important that you visit these locations in person, to help you to get a feel for what your big day will be like at each venue.
when choosing a location though, try not to overdo your options to the point where you feel overwhelmed. do a bit of research and see whether any of the venues you like also offer wedding packages that can take some of the stress out of your wedding planning. i highly recommend looking around for a historic wedding reception venue that can take all your indecision away with its beauty and excellent facilities. a place like this can make your wedding day extra special with its distinctly unique charm.
HIRE A WEDDING PLANNER
i know how overwhelming it can be to take care of every detail in a wedding. years ago i actually interviewed a local celebrity wedding planner and got plenty of insight into how things worked behind the scenes. it was fascinating! i never knew just how crucial a wedding planner can be to make the whole process run as smoothly as possible.
to make your vision for your wedding come true, you should consider hiring a wedding planner. they will help you sort through your thoughts and give you a better idea of what is possible for your wedding, especially if you have a strict budget. by hiring a professional, you might find that the planning process becomes smoother and quicker than if you were trying to plan every aspect of your once-in-a-lifetime occasion by yourself.
FOLLOW YOUR HEART
when you are planning a wedding, it can sometimes be easy to get trapped in what you *think* it should look like and the specific elements that must be present. however, following age-old wedding rules and traditions too closely might bring you a rather impersonal day that you do not feel passionate about. try to listen to your heart as much as possible when you are making important choices and perhaps add unique, personal touches to make your big day as special and memorable as possible.
GET YOUR PARTNER TO HELP YOU DECIDE
instead of leaving the wedding planning to just one of you, it would be more beneficial for both parties to participate in the planning process together. by opening this line of communication, you might find that you are able to bounce ideas off each other and that you can create a sequence of events that you are both able to enjoy and take pride in. just think of it as another opportunity to strengthen your bond — and make some fun memories in the process!
